The Fourth Key: Research Your Chosen Pet
The right pet can provide a healthy, rewarding relationship for life — but only if you choose wisely.
By the time you reach the Fourth Key, you've already done a lot of important groundwork. You've thought about your commitment, your household, and your financial and living situation. Now it's time to take all of that information and use it to research the specific type of pet that fits what you've learned about yourself.
Every species — and every breed within a species — comes with its own set of traits, quirks, energy levels, social needs, and care requirements. What looks appealing on the surface may come with demands that aren't immediately obvious. Taking the time to understand what a pet is actually like to live with, before bringing one home, is one of the most valuable things a prospective owner can do.
If possible, spend time with the type of pet you're considering. Talk to people who own them. Ask about the good and the bad. The more informed you are going in, the fewer surprises you'll face later.
Questions to guide your research
Use these questions to dig deeper into whether your chosen pet is truly the right fit.
- Do the personality, traits, and quirks of this type of pet genuinely suit your lifestyle and personality — not just your idea of what it would be like?
- Have you researched the typical energy level, social needs, and daily care requirements of this pet?
- Have you spent time with this type of pet in person, or spoken with people who own them about what daily life is actually like?
- Are there inherited traits or breed-specific behaviors that are normal for this pet but that you may find difficult to live with?
- Are there any genetic health concerns common to this type or breed that you should be aware of and prepared for?
- Do you feel confident that you can handle the daily care of this pet — including the parts that are less enjoyable?
- Are there any aspects of caring for this pet that you're uncertain about or that concern you?
- Does this pet's typical lifespan and long-term care trajectory align with what you're prepared to commit to?
Why this key matters
Many pets are surrendered not because their owners stopped caring, but because the reality of living with that animal turned out to be very different from what they expected. Thorough research before bringing a pet home reduces that risk significantly. Choosing the right pet the first time — based on knowledge rather than impulse — leads to fewer surprises, less frustration, and a much stronger foundation for a lasting relationship.
This resource is part of It's DogGone Awesome's Six Keys to a Successful Pet Relationship — a program designed to help people make thoughtful, informed decisions before bringing a pet home.