You, Your Family, and Your Potential Pet
Knowing yourself and your family is very beneficial in choosing your new pet
The Second Key is also an important element of the human/pet relationship. This is when the potential new pet owner considers their personal interests and activities and those of anyone who lives with them on a regular basis. The new owner needs to understand themselves very well, and know what they enjoy, what they are interested in, as well as what they do not enjoy or what they do not feel comfortable living with. They also must take into consideration those who are residing in the home with them. These people will influence the choices that the main owner will make.
Having pets in the home can be beneficial to the members of the family, as it is well known that animals can provide emotional support, as well as valuable companionship to children as well as adults. Pets in the home also give the family members an opportunity to participate in various activities such as dog or cat conformation, obedience, agility, 4-H or FFA, and other competitions.
It is important to keep open and honest conversation between all of the members of the family. This can help avoid any disagreements in the future if everyone is in agreement on the choice of pet and understand what their responsibilities may be going forward. Take into consideration what would the pet add to the life and home of the person who wants it, and what the expectations are.
Consider these questions before bringing home a pet:
- What are your interests and activity level?
- What do you feel comfortable allowing into your home?
- Are you married, have a family, or a roommate?
- Do the heads of the household agree on the type of pet as well as the rules and boundaries that will be allowed?
- Are there elderly family members or someone with challenges living in your home?
For the well-being of the pet, as well as for your own mental health, choosing the type of pet that will fit naturally into your home and lifestyle can be very rewarding.