Pet Support During Life Changes

When Life Changes Affect You and Your Pet

Life doesn’t always change gradually, nor does it always go as you had planned. Moves, health issues, relationship changes, job loss, or unexpected events can disrupt routines quickly — for both people and pets.

If a major life change is affecting your ability to care for your pet, you are not alone. Many responsible pet owners face periods where circumstances shift faster than plans can adapt. This page is here to help you slow down, assess what’s changing, and explore supportive options with compassion and realism.

Major Life Changes May Include:

  • Moving or housing transitions
  • Illness, injury, or disability
  • Divorce, separation, or relationship changes
  • Loss of a loved one
  • Job loss or major schedule changes
  • Emergency or crises

Many of these changes are not pre-planned, which leaves those who are affected possibly feeling lost and in limbo. These changes often affect pets as much as the people experiencing them. Pets are very sensitive to our moods and know when things are out of balance. They are aware of any stress, frustration, or indecision.

Before Assuming Change Means Loss

During times of upheaval or insecurity, it can feel as though surrendering or rehoming a pet is the only viable option. And while this may be true in some cases, temporary adjustments or support can help bridge the transition.

Now is the time to allow yourself to pause before making a decision you may regret later. Giving yourself time to explore options may help clarify what is possible, and may offer a more rewarding outcome..

 

Possible Options to Consider

  • Temporary adjustments to routines or care
  • Short-term assistance from trusted people
  • Professional guidance during transitions
  • Allowing time for both you and your pet to adjust

Not every solution is permanent — and not every transition needs to be faced alone.

Consider Seeking Support If:

  • A life change has disrupted your ability to provide care
  • Your pet’s behavior or well-being has changed significantly
  • You feel pressured to make a fast decision
  • You’re unsure what options exist during this transition

Some life changes permanently alter what is possible. Recognizing this does not erase love or commitment. If keeping your pet is no longer sustainable, thoughtful rehoming decisions can still center care and responsibility.

Support & Resource You May Want To Explore

  • Veterinary professionals
  • Local shelters or rescues
  • Community assistance programs
  • Trusted support networks
  • Clubs or groups that are affiliated with the type of pet you own

Reaching out to a support network of any kind can help open you up to the different possibilities that may be available in your unique situation. You may find others who have gone through similar situations, and you may be able to learn how they have handled it. Having someone you trust to talk with, especially if they are knowledgeable about your type of pet and the options that are out there, can be a tremendous help.

A Note About Resources & Support

The resources and suggestions shared on this page are provided for general informational purposes and are intended to help pet owners explore possible options. Services, availability, and eligibility vary by location and circumstance, and not all options will be appropriate for every situation.

This information is not intended to replace professional advice from veterinarians, trainers, housing professionals, or legal experts. If your pet’s health, safety, or well-being is at immediate risk, please contact a qualified professional or local organization right away.

Seeking help is a responsible step — and reaching out early can sometimes make a meaningful difference.

 

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Life changes are hard — and navigating them with a pet adds complexity. Support, patience, and education can help you determine the next step with care.

 

 

Pet Support is part of It’s DogGone Awesome’s commitment to Slow the Shelter Flow — helping pets and people stay together through education, compassion, and realistic support.